John Broyles

johnk_km@johnbroyles.com

 

March 23, 2006

Jan and our classmates,

    I am now found.  We just got back to the US and the Bay Area on Saturday, March 18th.  Our god son, Chris, and his wife picked us up at the airport and brought all of the mail that had been piling up since we left.  I think it must have been 50 pounds.  When we got to Jeanne's parents house in Atherton we found another box of mail that had gone to Jeanne's brothers house (because he takes care of our finances while we are gone) and it must have weighed 25 pounds.  Yesterday we went to church and in the afternoon we sat down to open our mail.  In it we found your nice little card.  Wow, it was a pleasant surprise.  We also got a pre-invitation to the reunion in October 2006.

    This year I don't think we will be able to attend.  There have been some major changes in our lives since the last reunion.  Are you going to ask people to write an update to their autobiographies?

    For you I will give you a synopsis.  I retired in 2004 and we joined a volunteer organization and went to Kyrgyzstan.   I guess I thought that if the terrorists want to kill all of the Americans I might as well go over there and find out what their complaints are.  Actually I found the people to be very friendly and generally nice people.  I think the terrorists are really only a minority.

    Jeanne teaches children, 5th and 6th graders, in a school primarily for children of expatriates.  There are some students whose parents are from the US Embassy and the military base there.  I am trying to design a micro-hydro system for generating electricity from power in the rivers.  Jeanne has the full time job.  She leaves the house at 7:30 AM and gets back home at 5:30 to 6:00 PM.  Then after dinner she often types up a test for the next day or corrects papers.  So, she is BUSY.  She says that she would not have it any other way, however.  I stay at home, wash the dishes, make the bed, wash clothes, hang them to dry, clean, study the Kyrgyz language and design micro-hydro systems.  I use the internet a lot.  In the near future I will be going to the villages more to work on the micro-hydro systems.

    Our two girls got married last summer and they, one husband, our god son, Chris, and his wife (5 persons in all) will be visiting us in Kyrgyzstan this summer.  That will be fun for us to show them around.  Our oldest daughter's husband can not get off work to come with them.

That is all for now.

    I guess you must have tried my old e-mail address and found that it was not valid.  I just changed recently to this one because we have secure e-mail between my computer and a computer in England and there were some technical problems with the Yahoo address.  Now I have my own domain name so hopefully I will not have to change my e-mail address again.

So, tell me what you have been doing some time.

Blessings,

John Broyles

 

    After graduation, I probably helped my father in his business during the summer. In the fall, I went to school at Cal Poly in San Luis Obispo to study Electronic Engineering. I enjoyed my time at Cal Poly very much. I enjoyed the freedom and social life the most. The studies were hard and although they gave purpose to my being there, they were kind of a thing to be conquered rather than enjoyed.

    When I graduated and started to work, I found that I did not enjoy the work as much as I thought I would. For one thing, the population of single girls my age dropped significantly. I had not found any girls in college that I wanted to marry but just the idea of having them around was comforting. I had three jobs between 1965 and 1970. In 1970, I was working in Mountain View at a company doing contract work for the military. They laid me off. I was mad and hurt. So I decided to fool them, and just go to business school.

So in the fall of 1971, I went to the University of Georgia Business School. It was a step backwards for me in terms of living conditions and of course, I knew no one. So it was a very difficult time for me emotionally. I stuck with it however and after graduation in June of 1973, I came back to lovely California.

    I had a difficult time getting a job in a pure business position so I flipped back and forth between business and engineering for a while. During this time, I was in my early 30s and was not married. This was not good as far as I was concerned. I got out my little black book and started calling some of the women that I had known before I went to Georgia. I went out with a few of them who were not already committed to someone else. One of them was Jeanne. I had met Jeanne in 1969 at a singles group sponsored by the church that I attended. Jeanne was still here and not attached. We went out and this time there was a spark. I liked being with her and I guess the feeling was mutual. Well, to keep this short, she agreed to marry me. We were both 34 when we got married.

Wow, what a fantastic change in my life. Now I did not care whether I liked work or not. It was kind of a means to an end. Our first fight was over money. What else? But we survived (she was right). We had two daughters about 15 months apart. Jeanne did not want to have children when she was over 40.

    When our first daughter arrived, there was a time or two when I regretted having to stay home because we now had a baby. But after a while, I got to feeling that this was a worthwhile endeavor and I had a sense of satisfaction that I was responsible now for another human being. (I actually thought when Jeanne was pregnant that I was not ready for this. I had not figured life out completely yet. How could I tell someone else what life was all about? But when Karen arrived, she did not ask those kinds of questions. All she wanted was to be fed, have her diaper clean and to get enough rest. So I was off the hook for a few years.)

    We pretty much worked, were active in the church, and went to school functions, soccer games, volleyball games, etc. for the years of their growing up through high school. In 2000, Melanie, our youngest, went off to college. Now we are by ourselves. Karen is a junior at Wheaton College in Wheaton, Illinois and Melanie is a freshman at Taylor University in Upland, Indiana. Wow, are they expensive now.

    I hope to retire in a couple of years, when Karen is out of school and Melanie has one year left. I have started learning to play golf in preparation for retirement. We still go skiing each year.

    I am getting a little tired nowadays however. I find that I cannot turn my neck as far to the side when I am driving and I do not sleep as soundly as I used to. I have no major health problems however, thanks be to God. I am counting my blessings when I hear of those who do.

I am looking forward to seeing everyone at the reunion.

John Broyles